Elmer Ray Green

Elmer Ray Green, lovingly known to family and friends as “Jay," passed away peacefully on March 4, 2026, at the age of 85. Jay was born on September 10, 1940, and lived a life full of love, laughter, faith, and connection with the many people fortunate enough to know him.

Jay was a devoted husband to his loving wife, Portia Green, and a proud father to Elmer Green and Felicia Smith. He was also the father of the late Edward Green, who preceded him in death. Jay was born to the late Rosa Green and Robert Green, who raised him with the values of kindness, faith, and community that he carried throughout his life.

He leaves behind two cherished sisters, Helena Urquhart and Lizzie Williams; as well as a -legacy through his six beloved grandchildren: Erica Williams, Nicole White, Marcal Spratley, LaVone Urquhart, Laroy Green, and Leon Smith Jr. He was also blessed with many great-grandchildren o brought him immense pride and joy.

Jay was a faithful and active member of Little Zion Baptist Church, where Reverend Dr. Melvin Blackwell serves as pastor. His love for the Lord was evident in both his words and his service. Jay faithfully served in several ministries within the church, including the Usher Ministry, Men's Ministry, Couples' Ministry, and the Men's Choir. His dedication to his church family reflected the deep faith that guided his life.

Jay was known far and wide for his vibrant personality and joyful spirit. Wherever he went, he was truly the life of the party. With his unforgettable smile, infectious laughter, and his one-of-a-kind dance moves, he could brighten any room and bring people together. Friends and family alike remember him as someone who was a true friend to many and pure joy to be around.

He had a heart full of gratitude and a deep love for the Lord. One of his favorite sayings was, "Tell the Lord thank you," a phrase he shared often and one that reflected the faith that guided his life.

Jay also enjoyed cheering for his favorite football team, the Washington Commanders, and faithfully supported the Smithfield Packers for decades. Whether watching a game, sharing stories, or celebrating with loved ones, Jay embraced every moment with enthusiasm and warmth.

Above all, Jay will be remembered for his kind heart, his joyful presence, and the love he freely gave to everyone around him. His legacy lives on in the lives he touched, the memories he created, and the family who will continue to honor his spirit.

He will be deeply missed by his family, friends, church family, and all who had the privilege of knowing him.

On Tuesday, March 10, 2026, viewing will take place from 3-6 pm at Shivers Funeral Chapel, 12749 Courthouse Highway, Smithfield, VA 23430. At 11 am on Wednesday, March 11, 2026, a Celebration of Life will be held at Little Zion Baptist Church, 9496 Old Stage Highway, Smithfield, VA 23430. Interment will follow the service in the Baptist Cemetery, Berry Hill Road, Smithfield, VA 23430. Please keep the Green family in your thoughts and prayers.